Anonymous asked: This same guy asks me today what I'm doing, and if I'm free later on. So I say yes, do you wanna chill? :$ .. So he says yeah i dont mind, what time? .. And i answered and he didn't answer!! Wtf! why ask me if i'm free if then he doesn't seem to want to chill with me?x :(
Hi darling, sorry Ive been gone for awhile :( x , he could of been busy or maybe his phone died? I bet he has a reasonable explanation for it! And if he doesnt then theres always more fish in the sea :)
Anonymous asked: i need advice. there is this guy ive been seeing and we hook up a lot after going to the bar and stuff like that and i fell hard for him. he said he still was trying to get over his ex but recently hes been acting different like asking me to come over and cuddle when hes upset and today we went out for lunch and he paid for me without me asking and we sat in the restaurant and just ate and talked but he never texts me first and sometimes he just doesn't answer at all i alway ask to see him...
Hi there ! Okay seems to me that this guy is confused about his ex. His feelings for you are there but his ex may also have them and that’s why he’s not giving his all to you. He’s using you to get over the ex. Not saying he’s just using you for that because he more than likely does have feelings just he needs to realize that. I would start showing less interest in him and make him chase after you, because that’ll show him that he likes your company a lot better than the ex’s! It’s basically a game , but if you keep up with giving him affection while he’s trying to get with the ex than nothing is gonna happen. This may not exactly be true but from my experience this is what my knowledge is based off of. I wouldn’t worry too much because its obvious he likes you , i think he just needs to realize it for himself !
Hope I helped !
Anonymous asked: This guy i like chilled with me on Friday and we held hands and kinda cuddled. but now i'm confused if he's just leading me on or what. I also really wanna chill with him again, but we haven't really been talking. And he asked me what I was doing, and told him i was so bored blabla. but he didn't ask me to chill. I know he asks his friends that are girls to chill, so why not me? :S is it cause he could be leading me on?
Seems to me like he’s giving you mixed signals. And are you sure that those girls he has over are just “friends” ? because he may be asking more than just you to come over and cuddle. I wouldn’t over think this too much though, I would let it just run it’s course and not give into him so easily. He’s probably just lonely, and he could have feelings for you but it may not only be you! If a guy likes you then he will try anything to get you, he will want to talk to you all the time and hangout with you a lot to get to know you better. My best advice is to let him chase you, act like you aren’t interested and if things start to get more serious then i’d open up to him more and make the relationship a two way street!
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